Hey there! Well, just to let you know, my daughter was also the result of a failed pill; however, I have put my faith in them again because I like the fact that I take the pill every night and I know "it's working" to say the least. I don't like shots or IUD's because I don't like the fact of not knowing if it works or not. (I know it sounds weird but I just like the fact I KNOW I'm taking the pill.)
AS for all your side effects...my sister was put on NuvaRing and OH MY GOD!!! Her mood changed, she was tired and lazy all the time and I didn't like her when she was on it. I told her to go onto the NuvaRing's website and check out the side effects and sure enough...those were some of them. I told her to take it out (cause she was SO GRUMPY!) and as soon as she did, about a day later (not even that), she was back to normal with her regular energy level again. Her GYN now has put her on Yaz and she's so much better. I don't know why he put her on the ring anyways because she has no sex life. She said that he told her that the pill really isn't effective on anyone over 200 pounds but yet, it has been fine for me (I still trust it). I don't know, but there's my sister's story as well as mine and I hope this can make you feel a bit more sane knowing you aren't the only one. :-) Good Luck and Happy Holidays!