C.C.
I think you are just fine for stating it the way you did. Lighten up mamas...she's trying to be a good step mom to her step daughter. There's always gonna be that "fine line" between step daughter and daughter. And you are fibbing if you try to say any different. Give her a break! P.S. the note was somewhat overboard for third graders....a talk is in order. Merry Christmas!