J.B.
Well, I guess due to your children's ages, I would have to know more about exactly what all you do for them before I could agree with your husband. Having said that, I see warning flags everywhere. Those kids are your children (and teens often need more parental influence and direction than little ones), and anyone asking to be put over them is a selfish and inconsiderate person. If you truly do not spend any time with your husband or ever go out on a date or anything, well, you should make some time for that sort of thing, but what's the deal with hubby? No license? Only part-time jobs? Is he a minister for a church that pays him a salary? Because if he's just saying he's a "pastor" and has a "ministry", but no money is coming in -then that's just a way for him to put off finding a full-time job. Why don't your two boys at home have their driver's licenses? I'm sorry if this sounds b****y, but it sounds like your husband needs to step up to the plate a little more before he starts making demands on you. And remember -your job as an RN isn't an easy one either. Sounds like you're doing everything.