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hi J.
I am a product of a broken home, like most people. But I was a lot younger than your daughter. It is normal for her to act this way. The man who raised me died 6 years ago and my mom started seeing someone a year after. Although I was an adult I was not okay with it. I felt that I needed her too. And even as an adult I talked to him the same way your daughter speaks to your new husband. First of all she is your daughter so he really should not be telling her what to do. That is not his place. That is for you and her father. He should be the person that she can talk to and be friends with. She is at a delicate place in her life. She is about to have a new sibling and me coming from a family of 5 children and being the only one with a different father, that is tough for a child to handle. She should definately be talking to some type of counselor. All of you should but she should have her own time with someone so she can let out her true feelings. If you are always in there with her she may not tell the counselor what is really going on with her and then she will get worse. Again speaking from experience. If I sounded harsh about anything I apologize I just feel very passionate about this subject. Good Luck