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She sounds like my 9 year old (though mine has not gotten into the clothes specifically yet:) One thing I am doing is getting her hair and face care products. Maybe even in a little caboodle type thing..do you remember those:)?! She is getting some face wash cloths, lotion, deodorant, bath stuff (that makes her feel older) and the book "The Care and Keeping of You." I might even go as far as getting her her own hair dryer etc. Oh, and I did order her a terry cloth bathrobe that she can use after her shower. She is my oldest, and I think its time to make the switch from little girl to big girl at my house. Also, try some board games, ds games if she has one, or an mp3 player. My 9 year old is also into arts and crafts, so any of those kits are fun for her. I know it is a hard age to shop for, good luck!! ~A.~