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I wish I had some ideas for you. Maybe try the "walker wings". You put this belt under their arms and it has handles. So he might feel like you aren't helping him as much and gain confidence. I got mine at Babies R Us for around 15 bucks.
I live in New Lenox and have soon-to-be 10 month old boy/girl twins. Would love to get together sometime! Also try meetup.com - southwest moms group. Great group although I haven't gone to any event yet.
Have a good one!