I had my hysterectomy in January of this year.
I was off work for 6 weeks, and then on restrictions for a month after I returned to work. My job is quite physical, and I do not sit by a desk. I'm not sure what type of work you do.
DaVinci Robotic is what I had done. I stayed overnight in the hospital for one night. And then sent home w/ some pain pills. I had restrictions for a couple of weeks, and the hardest one to abide by was no lifting over 10lbs. Which is kind of hard to do when I'm a single mom with a 25lb toddler. I also wasn't suppose to drive for 2 weeks, which I didn't abide by, because there wasn't a way I could.
I was uncomfortable for a few days, and I was in quite a lot of pain *if* I overdid it. By the 4th week of recovery, I felt perfectly fine, other then a little tired. I could do what I normally did. I just couldn't risk going back to work to further injure myself. I also couldn't resume in any sexual activity for 12 weeks after surgery, because of the tear. Towards the end of my 6 weeks off, I tore the stitches inside the vagina due to uncontrolled vomitting and uncontrolled diarreah. Which resulted in more bleeding (thats why I was on restrictions when I went back to work).
My doctor told me some women can go back to work rather early after having it done, but because of my job, he didn't want me to go back for 6 weeks.
I would ask for the 8 weeks off from your work, and play by ear with your doctor. He *shouldn't* return you to work until YOU feel good enough to go back. You know your body better then he does. What works for other people, might not work for you.
I hope everything turns out great for you and you have a speedy recovery :)