S.L.
"Plus to add to this craziness, her DH two younger sisters have become pregnant and neither of them is married. I know that this is hard for her bc they did it the right way, by waiting until they were married to have sex, got married and are now wanting a baby so desperately."
you might want to rethink this. having a baby out of wedlock sometimes is the completely right thing to do. i have one born in wedlock and one out of wedlock. it doesn't make one right and one wrong.