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Ask him to stop screaming. if he ignores you tell him "im going to count to 3 and if you dont stop screaming, I am going to put you in time out in another room"...count to 3 and if he doesnt stop...just put him in another room so he can work out his own frustration without you listening to it. I put my daughter on the bottom step...I can hear her but its not "in your face" screaming. I give her a couple minutes...she is usually done by then and slowly walking to me in the kitchen...you can see the sadness in her face. I usually say "ok Haley, are you done crying now?" she says "yes" (sniffling) and we hug...makes me laugh
If you boy gets UP from the time out place, put him back until he stays and stops crying. may take a couple times putting him back but he will get the picture