My step-son (from a previous relationship) wants to have a big party at a ranch. He wants to hire a band and serve a
dinner to 150 people. He is planning to block off the house so guests cannot use the house that is part of the ranch.
No telling what the weather will be like in the Central Valley (Fresno, CA).
Is such a party appropriate?
Please advise (I am no longer married to his dad). I am asked for advice--which I have little since I have no kids of my own. I
was too old when I got married.
He can have a party for any reason he wants, or for no reason at all. I don't see what could possibly be considered inappropriate about it.
Hmmmm. Interesting. I guess if he can afford it, so be it. Jewish people sometimes fork out a lot of money for Bar/Bat Mitzvah's. Sometimes Catholic's have a time of fellowship after a first communion. I guess this could be construed as similar? I don't get it, but far be it from me to judge.
There is never a wrong reason for a party!!! Yes, it sounds a bit over the top, but, it isn't offensive.
I had parties for my kids baptisms! And if he can afford a lavish party, he should do it! A good celebration helps everyone be happy! Some suggestions: make sure there are plenty of seats/tables, rent a big tent (if he plans to keep house blocked off, he needs to be prepared for any kind of day.) & since he's blocking house off, he needs to make sure he has a port-o-potty available!
It may be a little much, but it's not unheard of...
And...by the way...it's really none of your business if your step son wants to do this...
-M
Yes, it's appropriate to have a party for a baptismal. Sounds like he's going all out. Should be a great time!
If he can afford it then it's absolutely fine. I've been to several parties for religious accomplishments. I say go and have fun!
