Hi Hillary,
I know that a lot of prediatricians in the old days would say if a baby cries hard, gets red faced, and raises her knees to her chest that she is having gas or colic.
I read a book 15 years ago from a doctor (can't remember now, but i think it was called No More Colic) who said colic is a catch all term for crying, and that there were specific reasons why babies cry and usually it is not pain.In his research, all babies, when their needs are not being met, will increase the disress to send the signal to the parent that the need is still not being met, with clench fists,red face, louder voice, legs pulled to belly, etc. If, still the need doesn't get met, they get even more frantic, sometimes unconsolable. In his research he said the most common reasons for crying are 1) hunger 2)tired. And that 99% of the time it was one of the two. Pain can cause intense crying but he said it was much more rare than people are led to believe and many times moms will discern a "different" kind of cry.
To have gas pains every day just doesn't sound right-I know doctors pull this excuse off all the time, but, I think it is in-accurate. Toddlers, kids, and adults don't have gas pains every day, so it doesn't make sense that a baby would. Food allergies-yes, but gas pains, sounds like the doctor is grasping for reasons.
Anyway, I did use his technique with all 3 of mine and it did work. Food and sleep.(the mistake I did make with my first one was rocking her to sleep, then trying to ferberize her at 12 months. what a fiasco.) To this day she still fights sleep, and she is 13) My last two are great sleepers and they were put down to sleep in beds as babies. I didn't even use the swing.
The author also said that the need for sleep is GREAT, and most people underestimate just how much sleep a baby needs.When my babies were that young, they were only awake for 15 minutes at a time, and then back to sleep for a nap.
If she is awake for longer periods than that, she could be crying for the need of sleep. There are many babies who need to lay down to be able to relax. I think crying is a normal response because remember, they will cry until the 'need is met', and if they are still awake and feel tired, then they will be crying until the need get's met(IE: they fall asleep).
It is a shame that the word "spoiling" was used with a baby. The people who coined that term years ago just didn't get it. HUMANS ARE CREATURES OF HABIT. The real word that should be used in it's place is 'training'. Yes, even a young baby can be 'trained' into certain things. Scientists do it with animals and rats all the time, so how much more will you be able to train a being who has a higher brain. I learned that the hard way. It is always easier to START OUT with the training of the behavior you want to instill in them than to try to undo undesirable behavior later.I also learned that I underestimated my babies and they were capable of being trained younger than I thought. For example, if you want to instill good brushing habits, don't wait until the child is 2. Start getting them into the feel of having something in thier mouth early, (I dunno, maybe 9 months with a soft brush) so that as they grow and get a mind of their own, they don't buck you. If you want the child to be able to go to sleep on their own, then allow them to do so by placing them in the crib. People might think it is impossible to train a baby, they are wrong. As the child grows and the brain becomes more sophisticated, they will want to repeat what they have already 'learned' or experienced.(This is even true of adults! See how hard it is for an adult to change habits that are formed.) For example if their reality is to NOT have a toothbrush in their mouth, then the tendency will be to fight it to the finish (some more than others!)
I think it would be wise, for your own well being and rest, as well as your babies well being, to start her training now so that any unwanted sleeping habits don't get more ingrained. After all, you don't want her in your bed when she is 8! (yes, I know mothers who still have their kids in their beds at 6, 7 and 8).
Having a good nights sleep is imperative to being able to be a good mom and meet your children's needs.