Find a good white noise machine. Even a fan can do wonders, run it on high when you lay her down. She will get used to that sound and it will drown out any other household noise. Both of my kids were great sleepers with noise until toddlerhood.
They don't want to miss a thing and are full of energy. If she knows her brothers are up she just is wired out to be awake! :) Teething can play a huge factor too, make sure you see if she is teething, try teething tablets or motrin to settle her in.
The big things for me were, make sure she has a full belly before bed, clean diaper, cool and dark room, (black out shades are great), lay her down, turn on a music box/fan that winds down over a period of time or fan. Then walk out.
If she is playing you cannot force her to lay down, at least she isn't screaming her head off.
Make sure she isn't getting a nap too close to bedtime or for two long. If she is taking two naps narrow it down to one.
Try sleepytime lotion after a warm bath before bedtime too.
Shut the door and walk away. I never did cry it out until after the year mark but if you have a baby monitor you can gauge how she is doing and shut the door to her room and walk out.
To this day my four and seven year old love falling asleep with the fan in their rooms. It is relaxing, they cannot hear the phone or TV if they are loud.
Good luck! My kids went back and forth being sound or light sleepers...hugs!!!