A.C.
A little perspective here from an outside party. Look on the bright side. A fifteen month old needs horse play and it benefits your child to be exposed to his dad in addition to you. Daddies play differently from Mommies. Studies show that little kids need horse play to develop emotionally secure attachments. I understand how frustrating it must be to hand him over on those Sundays - I would die - but you chose this man and, by extension, his family. So they don't do everything the way you think they should. It sounds like the grandparents DO care about your baby. Different isn't necessarily wrong. Again, you chose this man to father your child and now you must allow him to be the father, even if he is a loser. Thank heaven you have your in-laws to oversee the visits and to build a good relationship with their grandchild. I would do all I could to form a great bond with them since they share your goal - to love that baby. Negativity only breeds more. Buck up and put your baby's interests ahead of your hurt feelings over the split relationship. If you form a respectful dialogue with the grandparents, things will be easier for you and, most importantly, for the baby.