L.S.
no more rocking and holding. I did this with my son when he tried this around this age (it was a test and I failed). I had to let him cry himself to sleep a couple of nights, but he got the hint. I would give him some milk. Then read a book. Brush his teeth. Read a book and then night night. Go back to a routine and that's it. He is testing you. We all go through it. They all do this to their parents. We can't fall for it each time. It is so hard... but if you give in then they have won the battle. You may need a gate at the door.