M.Q.
Hi M.,
my daughter never slept in our bed but was in the same room in a crib until she was 2 1/2. I started transitioning her into her own room at nap time. I would put her to sleep in her own room for nap and read a book,or lay with her until she fell asleep. Then after about a week or 2 with naps going okay i started at night.. I would give her bath, read a book to her then lay with her until she fell asleep. Also i let her decorate her big girl room before we out her in her own room to get her excited about it. She is now 3 1/2 and loves her room and has been sleeping in her bed now.this worked for us and i hope it gives you a little idea. Also white noise worked as well