J.H.
No real answer for you, just wanted to say I am right there with you. A husband who has to work all day and a mom who just married 2 months ago and wants me join her and her new family to celebrate her mother-in-law (a family I don't care for very much at all). I have decided I am going to just do what I love doing and decline the offer, stay at home and be a mother, wait for hubby to come home in the evening and then hopefully have a special dinner together. She will probably feel rejected but it has gotten to the point that I am tired of living my life to please everyone else and don't think it is too much to ask to excuse myself from this one uncomfortable luncheon and allow me to spend my Mother's Day relaxing with my children instead of putting on the fake smile. I hope that no matter what you choose to do that you have a wonderful day!