A.N.
Hi J.,
Have you heard of the Albuquerque MOM's Club? There are chapters all over the city (based on your zip code) and are for SAHMs and their children. They will place you in a playgroup with other kids your son's age as well as provide a monthly calendar of activities for the kids. The best part is that it is grouped by zip code so most (if not all) of the activities and moms are in your area. The dues are only $15 a year - MUCH cheaper than any of the local gyms. My son is 19 months and we joined when he was about 6 months. I have made lots of great friends (for me and for him!) and we are never without somthing to do or someone to hang out with!
Good luck!
Here is the website for more information and who to contact to join:
www.abqmoms.com