J.D.
H.,
I'm also a mom of b/g twins that are 30 months old. They were both 31 weekers and spent a combined 6 weeks in the NICU. I would say that even though they were not in the same bed, but close to one another in the NICU, they did form that bond. Maybe because they have co-bed since birth and still do now. I live in Pensacola, FL and you are more than welcome to write me at ____@____.com
Just out of curiousity...why do you say they didn't have a chance to bond like most twins???
Our pediatrician is from the "old school" and sees lot of twins and he said that "twins have their own set of rules" when it comes to growing up. Ashleigh & Austin are 30 months and she is bigger and more advanced than he is. Not that it is a problem, boys just tend to be slower at things. But when he catches up to watch she has been doing watch out!!! He does it in leaps and bounds.
Hope we can talk about our little ones!
God Bless your heart for taking on the role to your fiances children...I'm sure it has been an adventure, but worth every minute of it! :)
Take care,
God Bless,
J. D
Mom to Ashleigh & Austin (AJ) ~ 2 1/2 yrs