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I too had to go back to work when my first son was born. I actually cried when I dropped him off at daycare the first day.
I know have 2 children and they both attend Kindercare. My boys go to the one in Batavia which is to far from you but there are several in the oswego/montgomery area. The teachers are fabulous, the ciriculum is excellent as you child gets older and moves into the toddler class. It is not cheap but my 2 boys love it there.
good luck