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It would be helpful to make all of your dinners in advance. You might want to make the weeks meals on Sunday (when your hubby is home) and freeze them for the week. Also, make prepackaged snacks (put them in snack bags) and keep them in the pantry. If your kids take a bath every other day, start the cycle on Sunday, so that they only need 2 during the week. Have all of their outfits put together in large zip locks in their drawers. Have shirts, pants, socks and panties in one zip lock, ready to go. If you think they may get into them, keep them up high. It will just take a little getting used to. Just keep a tight schedule and keep them on a routine.