J.M.
I dont know of a place, but was wondering if you knew that if you pierce her ears this young when she gets older they hole will be in an odd place because her ears have so much growing to do. Mine are and I got mine pierced at 5yrs, they are almost dead center with no room for a second pierce in my lobe and its even worse the younger you do it. they will be more towards the back of her ear rather then down by her cheek on the lobe. Hard to explain. Plus, it HURTS for days afterward. Just a thought.
with my daughter we use the little stickon body jewels for special outings so she gets the pierced look without the piercing.
Congrats on your baby, she is very lucky to have a mom who loves and cares about her now.