A.C.
I can really sympathize, becausue I also had a bad birth experience with a practice that has a couple offices in that area. (Thankfully, my child was OK, even if I wasn't!) I suspect that it may be the same group you went to. Unfortunately for the good doctors in that practice, there is one doctor in particular who is a problem. I've heard similar, or worse horror stories about him from other women. For some reason, the other docs in that group keep working with him, though, even though it seems to me that he is a potentially huge liability.
I personally went to Westchester to find an OB to deliver my second child and had a really great experience, but I don't know how willing you are to travel. As far as Orange County goes, someone told me that there is a good OB GYN on Hatfield Lane in Goshen...I think one of them is Dr. D'Aro? I've never been there myself, though. I also know some women who really like Dr. Passano in Monroe. She delivers at Good Samaritan. Hope this helps! Good luck to you.