K.C.
Hi H., I cannot refer you to anyone but can pray for you because my hubby and I have been there and we are still working it out. It is not easy but I have to die to myself on a lot of things I pray and cry & pray some more at times but there is One thing I stood on from the very beginning until I die and that is "I do not believe in divorce - God hates divorce and as a believer in Christ I cannot go against something God hates" I trust HIM to turn my marriage around and let me tell you He has been Faithful...I am already seeing the fruits of me just doing my part and letting God work on my husband and some days its like "are we starting from scratch" but for the most part I see the change in us both and the wall built up between us is being chipped at everyday and slowly coming down and the romance is coming soon I see it just in the small changes we've made. Only God can make it work - because we were like Enemies at home a real war zone and its not a good example/witness for our daughter either. Books by Dennis & Barbara Rainey Family Life has helped and The 5 Love Languages excellent book ....Hope & pray you both take time out to get the help you need God Bless