I'm sad to see that yet another Mamapedia question has dissolved into such arguments. Why can't people keep their character assaults to themselves?
I think a 6.5 year old is going to go nuts with too many charts. I think "clean up" is a series of sequential tasks, so it's okay for a child to need a few prompts to a) put things in the bins and b) put the bins away. Kids need reminders. Do you have a definite structure and routine, perhaps one that needs a little more tweaking?
I see nothing in your profile or you past few questions that indicates you are homeschooling, as suggested in one of the responses below. Perhaps I missed something? I can't tell if this is a problem all day long because you are her teacher as well as her mom, or if this the "after hours" behavior. If you are home schooling, then you have to have definite routines that distinguish "school" from "family". If she sees you as "Mom" only, she can get a little confused. If she's in public or private school, she has routines all day long. Sometimes kids rebel against that at home - they're tired and they don't feel like putting the bins away. You have to be careful about how much you expect from a 6 year old in the course of the day.
You made reference in a prior post to her advanced reading level. Be cautious that you don't mistake a super reader, especially one with a big vocabulary, for a child who is mature beyond her years. She may be a 4th or 5th grade reader, but she's a first grader in other ways (and that can include a lack of maturity below "grade level").
That said, you still need some techniques for
I think the thing to do is to stop responding to the high volume and intensity, and take away what she wants (and is getting): attention! The more she is over the top in volume, the more you get after her. So she's getting a huge reward for it. Take that away. Stop telling her to tone it down, stop instructing her about what different settings and expecting her to understand. She gets NOTHING if she is loud or inappropriate. No charts, just walk away. "I cannot talk to you when you when you are loud."
I think you are excusing her constantly by using terms like "exuberance" and "wonder of living" show great appreciation of her, but give her tremendous excuses for doing whatever she wants.
Choose your battles. You have a child who is devouring books but doesn't have time to flush the toilet? The books are her currency - they are what she gets when she does what she is supposed to. Decide on 3 things that are essential right now. Maybe they are volume, toilet and hand washing. Stop with those, and ignore clean-up and all the other things you want her to do. Stop "going crazy" and try to focus. If you focus, she will see the value of focusing. If you are all over the place with lists and requirements and charts, she will be all over the place with her behavior.
Scale it back.
And remember, she is 6!!! You've just got to be more reasonable in your expectations.