W.H.
J. I am sorry about your loss, today is the 2 yr aniversary of my miscarriage at 9 weeks. The doctor could not tell me why I lost the baby even though I went in as soon as 5 weeks pregnant and was already taking prenatal vitamins. But to answer your ? about diabetes.
I have a family history of diabetes so you need to be seeing an Endocrinologist and not just a Primary care doctor. The Endocrinologist will makes sure you are taking the correct dosage of medicine/insulin and will help with a meal plan. You first need to stay away from too much starchy foods; white bread,pototoes, corn etc.
Old advice used to be fill up on carbs and you have sugar levels in the normal ranges. Finally they figured it out that it was causing most of the diabetic problems that can make having diabetes a pain in the butt.
My father is currently taking Glucophage and 2 different kinds of insulin. One is a longer lasting insulin and the other is for when his sugar level is too high it brings it down fast. His mom and her 12 brother and sisters all had diabetes and now out of her 5 children 2 have diabetes.
My chances are over 50% of getting it within the next 5 yrs. As I am 39 and it usually in their 40's when they got it. So I have already started taking starches out of my diet and trying to keep my weight down especially in the stomach area that's where you store the most fat.
I hope this helps, you can also go online and check with webmd.com and they have all kinds of articles and you can sign up for free newsletters to get more information. I hope I have not made you more nervous about having diabetes my grandma lived to be 83.
Sincerely, W. H.