C.P.
Hello A.,
I hope you have a whole foods or a sprouts near you because that would make it a lot easier for you to keep him on a milk/lactose free diet. You need to read every and I mean EACH AND EVERY label. Chocolate candy sometimes have lactose (as a sugar) medicine has lactose so you'll need to ask the pharmacist every time. even some of the medicines for IBS/chrons/colitis have lactose in it... imagine that! Has he been tested for allergies? did they check for celiac sprue? did they mention to try a gluten free diet?
http://www.csaceliacs.org/celiac_symptoms.php
here are some of the symptoms:
Abdominal cramping/bloating
Abdominal distention
Acidosis
Appetite (Increased to the point of craving)
Back pain (Such as a result of collapsed lumbar vertebrae)
Constipation
Decreased ability to clot blood
Dehydration
Diarrhea
Edema
Electrolyte depletion
Energy loss
Fatigue
Feet (Reduced fat padding)
Flatus (Passing gas)
Gluten ataxia
Mouth sores or cracks in the corners
Muscle cramping (Especially in the hands and legs)
Night blindness
Skin (Very dry)
Stools (Loose? Hard? Small? Large? Foul smelling? Floating? Clay, Light tan or Gray-colored? Highly rancid? Frothy?)
Tongue (Smooth or geographic - looks like different continents)
Tooth enamel defects
Weakness
Weight loss
~milk free links~
here is one link:
http://www.kidswithfoodallergies.org/?gclid=CJLBj7LHhZICF...
google: milk free recipes
http://www.google.com/search?sourceid=navclient&ie=UT...
I hope this helps. Good luck and keep trying!
~C.~