Kiss Me Softly

Updated on October 29, 2011
N.N. asks from Ecorse, MI
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My husband does not like to kiss and this annoys the heck out of me! yes he knows how I feel......

Does your hubby/SO kiss?

Clarity Update: we peck but I mean I want the tongue down my throat!

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T.N.

answers from Albany on

Kissing my guy has been a nearly out of body experience for almost three decades. Kissing my ex husband was like wiping my mouth with the kitchen sponge, yuck.

I wonder what he doesn't like about kissing?

:)

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J.L.

answers from Los Angeles on

Yup we kiss..in just about every way. I love it.
Kissing was a huge thing for me when I started to date after my ex-husband. My ex was horrible at it, and didn't really like doing it. So when he would kiss me he would go over board and it felt as if he was going to swallow my whole face, ugh.

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S.R.

answers from El Paso on

YES!! We do a simple plain kiss before he goes to work of a morning, and when he gets home. THEN, after he's had a few minutes to get changed, relax, SOMETIMES (this is my favorite) he'll come up behind me in the kitchen and kiss the back of my neck. Makes me melt every time! I just got chills thinking about it!

ETA: regarding your edit, if we start that kind of kissing, we end up in the bedroom, so we refrain while the girls are awake. :)

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K.P.

answers from Seattle on

Every chance we get! We like to surprise each other with one too. Like when we are just walking by each other, he likes to grab me and kiss me real good. I love the spontaneity of it. I never know when to expect it.

Try just grabbing your hub and make him kiss you! Lol, men cant say no to a hot passionate kiss from their hot wifey! Surprise him and see.

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C.O.

answers from Washington DC on

ooooh I'm sorry!!!

My husband and I love to kiss each other. There are times, still, after 14 years of marriage that my knees can get weak with his kisses!!!

It would bother the heck out of me if my husband didn't like to kiss!!

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ღ..

answers from Detroit on

LOL!! Thats funny! I actually think the slimy tounge is kinda gross. I have to realllllly be into it, or drunk. :)

We do kiss, when the time is right, he feels uncomfortable kissing in front of other people, and I can understand that.

He certainly wouldnt mind at home if I just walked up to him and stuck my tounge down his throat. But I dont always have the time for the aftermath of my actions ;)

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J.L.

answers from Chicago on

Yep....thank God My DH is a good kisser!

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D.B.

answers from Charlotte on

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W.H.

answers from Sacramento on

dont mean to offend, but maybe you're not a good kisser? my husband is the worst kisser in the world and I hate kissing him. i would never dream of telling him this, he would have a complete meltdown and the retaliation wouldnt be worth it. maybe he feels he cant tell you? we do still peck on the lips, but god, please, no french kissing... i usually move on to something i know he'll enjoy when the kissing gets to the point i dont like.

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L..

answers from Roanoke on

Haha, yes, we kiss. And by that I mean we kiss, we Kiss, and we ::deep voice:: KISS.

:)

LOL at Laura with musical notes!! You made me laugh so hard!

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H.G.

answers from Dallas on

Lmfao! Your a mess girl!
I love to kiss and I love the mess out of my husband but he will choke me with his tongue! Easy killer!! A peck is just fine to me :)

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A.S.

answers from Kansas City on

No, but he's a smoker and I'm not. He quit smoking for a few months, and once I could handle his breath, we really got into kissing, but once I could tell he started back up, it was back to pecks for us.

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E.B.

answers from Seattle on

I am that person that hates it.

i am a germ freak.

I wont kiss my kids on the mouth either. Cheeks only...and that is a stretch...sometimes it is just on the head.

I explain to them why. they get it.

Mouth tongue action freaks me out.

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L.J.

answers from Detroit on

I am like your husband, my husband would love if we kissed more passionately but I don't always want to. :(

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H.V.

answers from Cleveland on

oooo I love kissing!!

my b/f loves it too.. ugh he is the greatest kisser..
his kisses remind me of james bond movies... You know how he always grabs a girl really close, kisses her hard and she seems to melt>>??
Ya that is EXACTLY what my bf does.
I still love our "make-out" sessions :)
Oh and I'm with you on the tongue thing..gets me all excited...
Dang..my b/f wont be home for another hour! hahaha

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H.M.

answers from Denver on

Gross - I hate french kissing - double gag.

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S.F.

answers from Utica on

I am semi tongue tied and it actually hurts to use my tongue for a real make out session. I do sometimes like to get into it with my husband but very rarely and only in the heat of the moment. I get where you are coming from though - sometimes its nice to re-create those teenage years =)
Maybe try to catch him when hes had a few wobbly pops (ie. beers) and see if he gets into it

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C.M.

answers from Washington DC on

yes, my husband loves to kiss with his tongue. I really don't like it. Most of the time he has bad breath

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D.F.

answers from Detroit on

Ok - I'm a little late responding to this but I just laughed out loud!!!! My hubby is a TERRIBLE kisser and it drives me nuts. I want tongue down my throat too!!!!

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