L.A.
I always got myself ready before our daughter got up when she was young.
I promise it will get better as they get older.
Remember to discuss expectations even at dinner about the behavior you expect the next morning.
"Listen guys, I am really needing your help in the morning. I am trying to get ready for work, because if I am late, I get in trouble at work. If I get in trouble I could get fired. That would mean we would not have money for the fun things we like to do and no gifts for birthdays. "
"So in the morning. YOU need to get ready and rat your breakfast without me having to chase after the 2 of you."
"Can you 2 help me with this? "
"How can you get ready faster in the morning, or do you want me to wake you up earlier?"
Let them problem solve and make the choices.. Then hold them to it..