T.N.
I've actually become MORE empathetic to my mother's short comings over the past 19 years of motherhood. She had a very different life than I do, I think her choices (which were very different than MY choices) were made from her heart, same as mine, with love, same as mine, and always because she truly felt it was the right thing to do for any given child at any given moment, same as me.
I REALLY hope MY kids feel the same way about my shortcomings. Lord knows, we are NONE of us perfect.
:)