I was just curious if there are wives out there who often are the initiators of sex? I have a very healthy marriage with a great sex life. I'm just wondering about those relationships where the wife is the main initiator? My husband and I do just fine in the bedroom... I would just love to hear from other women who have similar situations.
Well, I'm older.
I never thought my husband would stop being sexual.
But he finally did.
And I am fine with it.
Lots of other things to do than screw.
I read at night now.
It's NICE :)
Grandma T! Hysterical! And so true! =) I don't have any advice. My first husband is 2 years younger than me and was like a damn dog in heat trying to hump me every damn minute. I HATED it! I'm remarried now to a man 7 years younger and we are more on the same page sexually and its so much better! Plus, I love quickies! I'm not about 3+ hour love making sessions. I do hear that hormones sometimes can affect a mans libedo (sp?). I hope you find something that helps! Good luck!
I've made the first move since day one. Never been turned down :-). There are lots of things he does romantically and as an equal partner to even it all out.
Had that problem with my EX husband. It is often caused by alcohol or drugs.
There are numerous things that can cause a man's sex drive to be low...stress, high blood pressure/ cholesterol, low testosterone. It sounds like you are asking because it is affecting your marriage so you need to have a "heart-to-heart" with your husband and tell him you are concerned about #1 his health and #2 your marriage, tell him you love him very much and you want to have that level of intimacy with him because it is very important. Then let him know you will help him make a doctor's appt to have his "health" checked out.
Don't make it all about the lack of sex that is going on because I think a man will get very defensive about that, make it more about you being worried about his health.
