K.B.
Becca,
I was induced with my second child. I totally regret every minute. I regret going into a hospital. I am now a birth professional and have learned so many things that 95% of pregnant women would never even think of researching.
If you want an amazing, life-changing read I suggest browsing 'Born in the USA' by Marsden Wagner (browsing as you may not have time to read the whole thing at this point). Especially read chapter 4 on Forced Labor.
A small excerpt[from a real-life story]
Grabbing the telephone from the maternity ward secretary, the nurse blurts out,"Doctor, I have tried and tried to find the baby's heart beat and then I got my charge nurse who tried and tried. We can't get a fetal heart tone at all. We need you. Please come quick!" The ob replies, "Right. I'm leaving home now. I'll be there in fifteen minutes, depending on traffic." Click. [fast forward a paragraph] The woman's ob arrives twelve minutes later and quickly determines that there are indeed no fetal heart tones, and the woman is in shock. He realizes this is almost certainly a case of uterine rupture, a situation where the woman's uterus, after an especially hard contraction, blows out like a tire. Uterine rupture is a known risk of Cytotec, the drug he has used to induce the woman's labor. [fast forward a sentence] It takes 20 minutes to prep the or for an emergency c-section, enlist (another)ob, find the anesthesiologist, and get scrubbed. By the time the laboring woman's belly is finally cut open, the baby is floating free in the abdominal cavity, having escaped from the uterus through a large rip in the uterine wall.
You may wonder what happened in this scenario? The baby died and the ob cut out her damaged uterus, leaving her barren. Just one of the many reasons not to mess with nature and induce! Especially with Cytotec. Please ladies, google Cytotec, Searle, Misopropyl, and research the effects of Pitocin! Yes, many women throughout history have had good outcomes, but do you really want to gamble that with your baby's life and yours? If anyone wants any further information, I have a full lending library which includes many DVD's that are very informative. Throw away that "What To Expect" and "Girlfriends" books that don't truly educate you! Pick up something by Henci Goer, Ina May Gaskin or Marsden Wagner to truly empower yourselves.
The last thing I want to do is invoke fear in any woman; however, that is what you will face when you enter a hospital setting. I have seen it first hand. Check out some beautiful water births or home births on YouTube and you will see the difference. Birth is not a medical event, it is a natural cycle of life.
May you have the birth you deserve!
Blessings,
K.