L.C.
Go in, but don't pick him up.
You've created a monster by going in, getting him up, getting him water, etc. You need to break this nasty habit.
I used to put a sippy cup of water in their cribs along with the favorite toy and binkie.
Talk to him during the day about how he is going to go to bed at night and you're going to put his sippy in there for him and that you don't want him to cry during the night. Tell him that you need him to sleep so that you can sleep. Kids aren't stupid. They hear you.
When you put him to bed, show him his sippy and remind him that you need to sleep.
If he cries, go in, but DO NOT PICK HIM UP. Pat him on the back and tell him softly that you love him and that he needs to sleep. Then walk out.
It doesn't matter if he is awake or asleep - all that matters is that he is in his crib - safe and sound - and you go back to bed.
If he cries to the point of throwing up, he's figured out that if he does that, you'll come running. Clean him up and put him back. Do not make a big thing, just be matter of fact about it. Always put him back. Do not let him go watch TV, or have juice, or whatever... he gets his water and back he goes.
YMMV
LBC
PS: My husband just asked what I was reading. I told him "this lady has a 19 month old who won't sleep through the night." His response: Don't pick him up.