well my husband is in a difficult situation about something that happen 15 year's ago with this lady he had a one night stand with her.he did not no at the she was sleep'ing around with four other guy's well she become pregneat he heard it from this other guy he new that was also sleeping with mrs.thing.this is so complicated because me and my husband have are own childern now we been married for 13 year's and have a great life together well after 15 year's mrs.thing got are adderss and send's my husband a letter saying she has his 15 yearold daughter well when my husband heard that she was pregneat he found out that she was claming the other guy's to be the daddy never try'ed to have any communicatein with my husband about this child well the daughter wanted to really now about her real dad so this is when we received this letter about this kid so i call'ed her well she want'ed a dna done well we had one done at this place she wanted it done at well little did we know she work's.we did not no this at that time well the test shoe's it's his child my husband think's that test was fooled with so she went to the child support place and now we are having to pay her child support of 800.00 month mind you this child look's nothing like are kid's together are even him there nothing there. well my daughter is 11 and gets very upset over this situation and i dont know what im going to do if this other girl ever wants to have anything to do with us because my daughter dont want her no where around us.as of right now the girl dont even care to meet my husband it was all about geting the money because there not even willing to let us do onther dna were we want.if it was all about knowing her dad they would not care so there something funny there. how would you mom's fill about this the mother did not even try to encourge the child to know her father.and we asked her why she waited 15 years to come around well she clam's she new all long he was the dad but did not want him around the child well im sorry i would want my child to now her father i think it was terrible how this was all handle my husband did not stand a chance to say how he felt about this and were she work's is the comany that my husband comany used to do there drug testing well she went in to his files and got his info thats how she got his adderss and stuff.well let me know what yall think.thankyou
I think you need to talk to a lawyer. Look in the Chronicle (I think on Thursdays) in the Tomball/Magnolia section - they have an advice column by lawyers and at the bottom is a number to call for free advice. If I was you I would fight it because she waited 15 years and she works at the place that did the test. Even if it is his daughter I think if he signs away his rights he does not have to pay child support.
I think you need legal help here. It is bizarre that she would approach you after 15 years.
o wow girl, i will be praying for your situation. that is intense. i would definatley get a lawyer, and take them back to court. that is nuts. all they want him for is his money. sounds like some kind of scam they are pulling together to me!!
Get a reliable lawyer. They will know what to do, have indepentant companies do all testing and have no contact with the other lady, let your lawyer do your talking. Once all legal aspects are taken care of and you are positive your husband is the father then he may begin a relationship with the girl. I wouldn't worry about the mom the child is the one
she has been hurting all these years. A young girl needs her father and I'm sorry for the years she has lost with him, whoever he may be.
First, you need to back to court and have another DNA test done. If you have proof that she got in your husbands files to gather info on him, you need to talk that over with your lawyer. And, yes it could just be a money ting, she may have been doing fine all these years and now she needs help. If the child is really your husbands daughter, then he should be paying shild support. And if this girl is really your husbands daughter, you can't expect your daughter to just want to become BFF's with her, but you do need to explain to your daughter that this girl is her sister like it or not and try to help build a bridge you can all cross together to get to know her. For me, family is so important, you need to do what you can to find common ground. If/when you go back to court to have another DNA test done, that is also your chance to get time with the other daughter legally. The mother will then not tell you can't see her, she will have no chose. If this girls does get proved to be your husbands daughter, I would suggest all of you including the new daughter, seek councling to help you cope and learn to handle one another. Good luck.
Hi J., I think you should ask the court to request another test. It may turn out the same way, however it may not. In any case it would give you some comfort knowing the real truth. As for you'r children be understand, yet also try and help them adjust if this other chils in question is truly part of you'r family. Remember you do not know what this girl has been told by her mom,so until the truth is known, I feel you need to trust you,r heart and in Jehovah God to give you the right answer.
