G.W.
My daughter will be nine next month and somewhere around kindergarten we had to toughen up much like the other women have described. I can't number the times over the years that my daughter has gone to bed without the evening meal because of her refusal to eat what I've cooked. Now that she's older, if she comes into the kitchen to inspect what's being cooked for dinner and knows she doesn't like it, she'll simply say, "I won't be eating dinner tonight" and I reply as simply, "OK, that's fine" and that's the end of it. Now, if I can just get my two year old twins to eat better, honestly, there have been a few nights when they have only had their milk and almost no food because they refuse to eat what's in front of them. But they sleep fine at night so I guess the milk is enough to keep them satisfied until breakfast.