We've had dads on here before, and we're all more than happy to help out with some advice. As awful as it is that she's gotten herself pregnant, you really have no choice at this point but to accept her and tell her how much you love her and that you and her will get through this together. As far as the boyfriend goes, give it time and let her find out on her own about him. It will happen, but it may take time. If you try to intervene, you will only be pushing her farther away from you and right into his arms. Teenagers have such a rebellious attitude when it comes to their parents saying that they can't do something or can't see someone. It will hurt to see it happen, but she will end up seeing what he really is sooner or later. In the meantime, just try to keep your lines of communication open by asking her how she's feeling, or reminding her you love her, and maybe offer to go to her doctor's appointments with her. You could also maybe buy a couple of special things for her that have to do with the baby, like a baby book where you record everything that happens during your pregnancy and after the baby is born. Anything that lets her know that you accept and love her, pregnant or not pregnant. Buy her the book "What to Expect What You're Expecting" and tell her if she has any questions, you'd love to try and give her an answer. Just don't push her. Her hormones are already crazy since she's a teenager, and on top of that, dealing with the new hormones that come along with pregnancy. It's very easy to feel alone and scared when you're pregnant, even if you are surrounded by people who love you. You feel like noone could possibly understand that you just feel alienated, and sometimes feel like crying for no reason at all. Be very patient, and have faith in yourself. As far as taking away the car goes, it's totally on you, but I don't think that a "punishment" is the best way to handle an unexpected pregnancy. What she needs is support, and you taking her car away is not going to solve anything at this point. Right now, the only thing you can do is move forward from here by making a plan on how you're going to get things that the baby will need, schedule doctor's appointments, and how you're going to help her both emotionally and physically. I would explain to her that you didn't mean to take the car away, you just were so blown away by her announcement that you felt like there needed to be some kind of action, but you hadn't figured out what that action needed to be just yet. Now that you've had some time to think about it, you just want her to know that you are not mad at her, you just wish that she had been more responsible because she's now put herself in a position where things are going to be hard for her. But that doesn't mean that she has to give up anything, it just means that things are going to take a little more planning now. Make sure that she knows that she can still accomplish all the same things and that you will help her in anyway you can. Things will work themselves out, just give it some time and LOVE HER...