K.D.
There are many reasons healthwise to breastfeed, and if all those reasons don't make him reconsider, pull out this most important one, and share it with whomever doesn't see the light. And this, to me, is the #1 best thing about breastfeeding: your breastmilk is your baby's pharmacy. Your baby gets a germ, inserts it into your breast like having a prescription filled. Your body identifies the germ and makes an intibody to fight it off. Next time baby nurses, that antibody is given to the baby: his prescription is filled. What an amazing machine we women are that we can do this! And no doctor, no pharmacist, can do that for our babies. Science hasn't come that far yet. We are a living pharmacy that custom makes medicine for our babies, you can't get that from formula! Share that story with him if he doesn't think it's the best thing for your baby! Besides, he loves you enough to produce a baby with you, how can there be anything "icky" about you, using the body that he loves, to nurture the baby you both created and take care of it in the best way imaginable?! Does he have his head up his butt!? *sorry if that sounds mean, don't mean to!* I can't imagine him saying he has to "deal" with you nursing your baby, he should be honored that you love your baby enough to take the effort to do such a wonderful thing for his/her health. I can't imagine how it must feel going thru all that you're going thru, being pregnant on top of it, taking care of two kids already, and dealing with that, it's just plain immature, or anal retentive, that's my opinion. Seriously, I'd mention to him that he needs to get over his issues because you're going to have 3 kids before you know it, and their needs are priority, not his stupidity!