J.H.
Your poor son! How awful for him to have heard that. He should NOT feel like he is unwanted when he visits his dad!I would DEFINITELY speak to his dad, and make sure that his dad talks to him and explains things. His dad will need to reassure him that he is welcome there, and that he is loved. I think it would be nice if his step mom apologizes, but you can't force that. I am so sorry he has to go through this. At least he is open enough to tell you about it so you can help him through it.