How to Handle Situation with Aggresive Children

Updated on August 04, 2008
R.J. asks from San Marcos, CA
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I found myself paralize in different situation when my girl had been involved.
sometimes i do not want to over react or agressive set limits.
My daughter is only one child and tall for her age, thing that i see people expect more from her. Older boys seems to be agressive for her. I notice she is afraid to any situation concerning jumping boys around. Also i noticed older boys sometimes are careful with younger kids but others just rudeless.
Last incident in a playground,a young boy were telling my daughter used the stairs instead going backawards in the slide. I understood that but then he did not apply the same rule for him in the slide so i noticed my daughter try to do it again and this boy scream in her ear and pulled her tshirt making her fall. then i interfiere picking her up and help her so i wait for him to go by the stairs too. instead this little boy hide and grab my daughter and pulled her fingers and bend. My girl just cry and so afraid did not move. so i scream throught the playground little kid did not care. How to handled this situation when i see his mother were taking him pictures and never care or notice about this incident. Ofcourse my only concern was the wellbeing of my girl but what to do i got little bit angry with myself to not act or being appropiate for the respect of my girl. I wish to say "they are only kids" but i think in all ages we are who create our society:: succesfull people or abusers.

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D.M.

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Luckily, there don't seem to be many kids that bully, at least to my kids, but if you come across another one, tell the child to be nice to your child, then if he still bullys and hurts your child, find the mom and tell her, but don't yell at her, be nice about it and hopefully she won't get all defensive and mad back at you, which she has no right to do - it would be very rude of her if she did that. Then just stay close to your child to make sure the bully doesn't do it again.

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S.S.

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I think you have every right to tell the other child not to touch or yell at your girl. If that does not work then by all means go talk to his mother.

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D.P.

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You are your daughter's protector. I would have approached that boy's mother. Or said something to him myself. I tend to have a hot temper when it comes to someone bullying my children.

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