How Much Notice to Give a Nanny When Being Laid Off?

Updated on March 21, 2011
J.A. asks from Fresno, CA
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My best friend has had a nanny for one month. She just found out that she & her husband have to move out of the area. She does not have a contract with the nanny. How much notice should she give her nanny? The nanny has overall been pretty good. She wants to be decent and give the nanny as much notice as possible, but she's afraid the nanny will not be as dependable once she knows she's being laid off. (apparently the nanny left her last employer immediately upon being offered the job w/ my friend, and did not give the employer any notice). Should she pay her anything extra? (eg severance)?

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T.K.

answers from Dallas on

wow - that chick just got hit in the face by bad Karma! She quit a job for another job just to lose it 30 days later!!! I would just give her as much notice as possible and if the girl continues doing a good job, I would pay her an extra week. If she does not, then I would just pay her for time worked and ove on.

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T.N.

answers from Albuquerque on

If your friend is worried about reliability, she could give the nanny only a week or two notice. Or she could wait until the last day, tell the nanny it's her last day, and pay her for an extra week or two (sort of like severance). If the nanny had been with her longer and they had a close relationship, I'd say give a lot more notice. But if your friend is concerned the nanny won't show up for work, less notice is probably a good idea. Another idea is to give the nanny a lot of notice and offer her an incentive to stay until the very end.

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J.D.

answers from Dallas on

I would give her as much notice as possible, but an incentive to stick it out. So if she stays through the last day....you will pay X amount. If she decides to bail then she doesn't get the extra money and your friend should have some kind of back up plan if the nanny does bail.

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C.C.

answers from Sacramento on

The nanny will figure something's up when she sees the moving boxes, right? LOL Decency would require 2 weeks' notice (or 2 weeks' pay after the last day if no notice is given to the employee). A small bonus for staying until the end is not a bad idea, otherwise, what incentive would she have to stay if she is offered another job? Your friend should have a backup day care option in place, just in case.

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M.B.

answers from Washington DC on

First thing your friend needs to take care of herself! I would suggest she prepared for the worst -- telling the nanny and never seeing her again; or telling her and having her no longer doing a good job with the children.

As soon as the friend has a back up plan in case that happens -- a relative that can visit for a couple weeks, a neighbor, some saved up vacation time that she could use -- a combination of all three -- then tell her.

The nanny has only been with your friend a month. How soon is the position ending? I would think 2 to 4 weeks notice is reasonable.

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L.M.

answers from Dover on

I think it is only fair to give her at least two weeks notice since she is so new. Tell her she could also offer her an extra week's pay if she sticks around through the time you move.

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S.C.

answers from Milwaukee on

I would give notice now and an incentive to stay. In the future, I would not hire someone who doesn't give her employer the same courtesy.

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M.L.

answers from Houston on

I would give her two weeks notice. No need to pay a severance, no contact is in place.

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T.C.

answers from Colorado Springs on

Regardless of what another person has done, your friend should do the right thing. I'm sure the nanny will figure things out pretty quickly, better to hear it from your friend. I would explain the situation, and give her an estimated time frame. If she wants to hold on to her as long as possible, she might consider letting her know that she will receive a bonus if she sticks it out to the end with her. If she bolts, then she loses the bonus.

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P.R.

answers from Cleveland on

2 weeks notice plus 2 weeks severance seems standard. Not the nanny's fault the job is only ending after a month... The severance allows her to try to find another job while still having income. If she's just given 2 weeks notice but has to work 10 hour days, not much time to interview etc. Typically nannies don't have tons of $ in the bank to ride out time unemployed. If she leaves before the 2 weeks are up, forget the severance. So then it's incentive for her to not walk out. If your friend can't get other backup childcare, she may have to set up more of a bonus structure to make sure the nanny stays until the last day needed.

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J.L.

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Hi J., I would say at least 2 weeks, it's only fair to give her time to find another position. J.

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