I would use those tiny rubber bands that you use when you have braces....they are very small, just put them in and put your bow behind it...also, the best clip is an alligator clip....those that are used in a hair salon...I would use those and then take a pair of pliers and flaten down the gap (near the end of the spring end) and it would not slip...I used those clips without the bands on my youngest daughters hair...If you can't find a bow with those clips and you find a cute bow with a large clip on it, go to Sally's Beauty supply and buy a box of 100 for a couple of dollars, then remove the center piece on the bow that you have purchased, remove the bow from the clip and reassemble on the small clip....I could never find really cute bows for a small child but always for a larger one...