J.G.
sounds pretty hectic....when i first started working again after being off for 3 years it was just the same as you describe. i work 6 day work weeks on afternoons and my husband works days so our schedules dont allow for time together as a family except on my days off. and usually during my 6 day work week i only see my kids for about 30 minutes a day in the morning before i send them off to school. that is very hard for me since i was there for 3 years of their lives and they are 5 and 4yo. but let me tell you it gets better and easier. you guys will find your own way of coping with the new situation just as soon as you get the swing of things. most of my time with my husband is spent when we are home alone at night and the kids are asleep, but it's hard because he has to get up at 5am and i don't even get home until about 1030pm. but at least we get to sleep together and when we are both too exhausted to be up we just lay in bed watching tv until we fall asleep. good luck and hang in there, it will get easier soon