So I have 4 1/2 month old twin girls and they are daddy girls already.. me and my husband are like will we ever be able to have real passionate sex again the girls sleep in our room so its like they hear us planning to have sex.. we sneak off to bathroom and they start screaming or our oldiest daughter come knocking how can we still have our sex life, parent our kids and work all this in before my husband bedtime he get up early in the morning.. help me please
Wait until the girls are both in DEEP SLEEP.
Then go and do it in another room.
I mean, per timing, don't go and have sex when they go to bed and are still awake. I mean, we wait until the kids are in DEEP sleep. Once they are in deep sleep, they don't wake.
Timing.
Babies don't even know what sex is, so that's your hang up/problem, not theirs. Just do it once all the kids go to sleep and put a sock in your mouth if you tend to be loud.
What does them being daddy girls already have to do with not having sex? How old is your oldest daughter? Why is this different than anyone else who have new kids and little ones.Especially if you put them in the same room as you. If you are desperate get a babysitter and a hotel room. Wait and if your husband is pressuring you tell him to hold on. It gets better Really..
Get a babysitter for the night and go for it.
What. An. Odd. Question.
Welcome to Mamapedia.
Gotta say, that's the first time I've ever heard a woman use the term "C Block."
Do you really think your infants are understanding the concept of you planning sex?
Have sex after your kids are asleep.
Hopefully, they can move into another bedroom.
Then lock your door and keep it down.
If not, you guys move to another spot.
Or get a sitter and go to a hotel.
You have twin infants and an older kid - no kidding you're a bit busy!
Your post doesn't make any sense. 4.5 month old babies don't know what is going on. Why are you sneaking around? Aren't they both asleep by a reasonable hour?
At 4.5 months, they should be in their own rooms (assuming you have the space).
Hi Mzroyalty:
First of all, you need a routine with your children.
Get a appointment book with 5 columns. A column for each of you.
Put in the routine for each of you.
Look at it with your husband and plan your time together.
Secondly, You can put your three children in one bedroom.
Go through an orientation with the children about what they are
expected to do when in their room.
Thirdly, You need to enforce the rules. If you have a problem doing it, take some lessons from a parenting advisor. Note: if you don't learn to discipline your children, the schools and police officers will have no problem doing it for you in the future.
Fourthly, You need to set a routine up to go to Sunday School and Church. The children will learn to self-govern so your discipline will be enforced by what they learn in Sunday School.
Good luck.
Thanks for asking.
D.
What they know is that mommy and daddy left them.
Do they HAVE to sleep in your room? Is there not another bedroom they can sleep in? Aren't they big enough by now to be away from you some?
Talk to your ped.
As far as your older daughter is concerned, it's according to how old. Sometimes it's like when you get on the phone and then the kid is saying "Mommy, mommy, mommy" just because you're on the phone. That's a behavioral issue.
