G.T.
Buy hubby a couple of new cookbooks, maybe a vegetarian one and another for heart healthy recipes... And let him know that food is wonderful but you need to exercise some of the calories off otherwise you will be in a world of hurt. No time like the present to get healthy. If he doesnt want to be the leader then you need to do it without him. Get a blender and start making yourself fruit and veggie smoothies throughout the day, when you start looking good he'll get the message. Men can lose weight so much quicker than we can, so get a headstart on him and he'll catch up I betcha anything :)