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I don't know about here, but I know from some friend's cases back east that the custodial parent gets child support in most cases. One friend going through a divorce in Maine, as custody has been handed back and forth between the parents the child support has been switched between the parents. Another friend and his ex divided custody exactly equally between the parents so neither would have to pay support. Same thing in New Hampshire. Apparently in New York, the custodial parent gets 1/3 of the non-custodial parents income, period, no matter what the child's expenses are. I would definitely get some legal aid involved in this one.