Relax...Relate....Release!! Congrats on the new little bundle of love.....you are only going through what is normal....so dont freak out!! Yes I would say check the obvious...but I would first say try warm sink baths, finishing with a nice baby lotion massage and a warm bottle/breast. One thing my son liked as an infant was being wrapped like a burrito, it gave him that snug feeling of being in the womb( try it), while the baby is having their moment...sing "you are my sunshine"...or what ever also sooths you at the same time. So far as the being fidgity and not wanting to sleep....try keeping them up for longer periods of time instead of letting them cat-nap....and J.F.Y.I...thier nap time is your nap time... Now..being stressed....when your sweetie pie gets home(after he unwinds)...let him know his little ball of sugar missed him....thats when you need to unwind with a nice hot bath( you must find ways to relax in as little time as possible!!!) Last....PCS..you have time...dont let it get to you, it will get done...it will!! Again.....Relax..Relate...Release!!! Enjoy being a new mom,do what you can & let God handle the rest....and if you are in the Heidelberg area...let me know, I will help you with your packing....God Bless!!!