Help! My 4Month Old Is on a Sleep Strike!

Updated on September 21, 2007
A.G. asks from Folcroft, PA
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Hi everyone. My son has been sleeping like a champ basically since we stopped waking him up to eat at just a few weeks old. He's been sleeping 8pm-6am since he was about 6 weeks old. He's also been napping 10am-12pm and 1pm-4pm every day. Until a week ago. Now, he tries to stick to that schedule (he set that schedule himself and has always stuck VERY closely to it), but the only problem is, he wakes up about every 30 minutes! And he doesnt wake up upset. He's happy as can be. Flailing his arms around, smiling, giggling, squealing. It's not that he's not tired though - as soon as we pick him up, he is OUT. He's not hungry - he sticks to the same amount of bottles he usually has, and refuses it if we try to give him more to help him sleep.

Is it just because he's hitting big milestones? He just figured out how to roll over front to back, and I think he's working on back to front...

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S.F.

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So sorry about your troubles. It will get better. My 4 year old son did the same thing at about 4 months. I associated it with his learning to turn himself over, he was waking himself up and didn't know how to self-soothe and put himself back to sleep. I introduced a "lovey" at this point, since the risk of SIDS decreased so much that he can roll over. I used a diaper cloth that I held under my breast while nursing. It smelled like me, smelled a little like milk and he took to it like a champ. It took a few nights, but he was able to put himself back to sleep. The lovey came in handy as he got older too. It helped comfort him when he got hurt and when he started nursery school. It now stays home, but he still sleeps with it. Hope this helps. If I can offer any more suggestions please let me know. Hang in there.

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L.S.

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he's just screwing around with you. Don't pick him up. he will fall back asleep if you just leave him alone. As long as his needs are met (he's been fed, changed, etc...) then you can leave him. If you continue to pick him up, you'll create a very bad habit and you'll have a kid who won't sleep.

Good luck!

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M.C.

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Chances are that it is because he's hitting a milestone. I remember both of my kids not sticking to a sleep schedule when those kind of events happened. His brain is probably in over drive to get over this milestone. Take is from a mom who has teenagers, when their brains are in overdrive, they don't sleep, but are not tired. It will eventually stop and he will establish a new or the same sleep pattern. Remember, they don't stick to the same pattern as they get older. You may notice that it eventually takes one nap for him to get through the day. Also don't force food for sleep - I tried it too and it didn't work.

Best of luck

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L.H.

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It sounds like he is just moving along just fine. If he wakes up and is not screaming. Just let him go and he will fall back to sleep. I know that is hard to do. But not screaming then just let him play.

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M.S.

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Isn't it weird. My third child does that, but i just leave him alone until he cries. Most of the time he will go right back to sleep. So if I were you I wouldn't bother him at all.

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