I agree and disagree with some of the other comments.
Where we all agree is that you're doing a good job of offering things to her and certainly have her best interest in mind. Where I disagree is that I believe we do need to force the issue and establish guidelines on what is expected of our children at meal time.
Our 3.5 year-old son is doing the same thing, and we're not tolerating it. He has to try everything at least once. It can be brutal as he will try to wait us out. I have no problem letting him go to bed hungry.
Our daughter is a much better eater but she has some things she's just not interested in. Bread is one (23 months) that I haven't figured out. So, we make adjustments, but they always eat the same things as us.
My husband is a picky eater, and I don't want my kids to pick up his bad habits. His parents didn't force him to try new things, mine did. As a 35 year-old man, he's 60 lbs overweight and is on medication for high blood pressure and cholesterol because he'll pick a Philly Cheesesteak off a menu any day over something healthier. He knows he has to eat certain things for the sake of the kids.
I'm also not a fan of recipes that hide the food inside other items they like. Yes, it's good from a nutritional standpoint, but they never learn to appreciate the flavors and like the foods. Also, cooking broccoli into brownies severely compromises the nutritional value.
The concern I have with your current menu is that there are very few fresh ingredients that offer vitamins. Eggs, multi grain waffles, cottage cheese (and the occasional veggies) are all good. Turkey bacon is actually less healthy than regular bacon because of the massive amounts of sodium added in most cases. I'd compare labels and see which you prefer.
The rest of her meals are all carbs which, though good for energy, will metabolize quicker, put more insulin into circulation and possibly lead to weight gain down the road.
I'd ask your pediatrician what they recommend if you need to start supplementing her diet to provide the vitamins she's currently not getting. And, here's that the American Association of Pediatrics recommends to parents for children the age of your daughter.
http://www.healthychildren.org/English/ages-stages/toddle...
http://www.healthychildren.org/English/ages-stages/toddle...
http://www.healthychildren.org/English/ages-stages/toddle...