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Oh goodness. How can we possibly help you? Should I go pee on a stick for you?
I have that FEELING in my stomach that I'm pregnant. It's like a tugging feeling or butterflies. I had sex with my boyfriend on September 24 and the next day, before I could take my birth control pill, I had an anxiety attack and was in the hospital for two days. I didn't take my pill neither of those two days. My period is currently 4 days late, but last night I started lightly bleeding. I haven't taken a pregnancy test yet, but I just KNOW I'm pregnant. It's not like a normal period, it's lighter and darker than usual. And my stomach isn't cramping as bad. Today, I have had a sick feeling in my stomach, and I'm scared I'm losing my baby. Can anyone help me?
Oh goodness. How can we possibly help you? Should I go pee on a stick for you?
take the test, the dollar store sells them. buy a few and test each day if you need to.
stop all of this drama.
you should see a therapist about your anxiety problems.
What, exactly, would you like us to do??
Go take a test.
Wait--you posted this yesterday, didn't go get a pregnancy test, and now want help?
Please, help yourself first. Anxiety will only make any late period worse. You don't have confirmation of a baby and yet you are getting hysterical about possibly losing a baby you don't know you have.
Stop. Stop now. Please go talk to your doctor, because you are letting hopes and anxiety spin you out of control.
Go pee on a stick before you start freaking out.
You have no idea if you are pregnant. I agree with Fuzzy, go pee on a stick.
You posted this same thing yesterday, why haven't you called your doctor?
Please go to your local ER or county health department and tell them you'd like to do a pregnancy test, that you're bleeding and thought you were pregnant.
Otherwise just wait and see. If you are pregnant and losing the baby there is nothing you can do. If you are pregnant and just having some bleed through stuff there is nothing you can do. If you aren't pregnant and just starting your period then there's nothing you can do to make that different.
One thing I will suggest is that while in the hospital they gave you meds right? Well, those meds likely relaxed you very deeply. So you're not having cramps due to those muscles still being under the effect of those meds. Some of them take a month or so to work their way out of your system.
Did you start a new anxiety med too? Then it might be working on the muscles in the same way.
Also, since you had a panic attack around the time you were probably ovulating it could be that you have PMDD.
A friend of mine was diagnosed Bi-Polar and put on horrible meds that interacted badly with everything! Food, other meds, and more. She was sick all the time while on it too.
Once she went to an OB/GYN they listened to her talk about being crazy for a week a month. That she had Bi-Polar disease but it only effected her a short week each month, the rest of the time she was pretty normal.
They took her off the Lithium and put her on a med specifically for PMDD and she is fine, never better or more well rounded.
Call you gyn and make an appointment. Really strangers on the internet can't help you. You need to do something to help yourself.
You wouldn't feel anything in your stomach if you were pregnant at this stage. You wouldn't "feel" anything for quite a while especially if it would be your first. The only thing you would feel from your stomach is its contents making their way up and out as vomit with morning sickness. Usually if you are pregnant you wouldn't have a period at all, maybe spotting but I wouldn't expect it to be darker. Are you wanting a baby? Are you scared to take a test because it will tell you that you aren't pregnant? You are probably stressing about it too much to cause your sick feeling today in your stomach. Here is my advice. Go take a test, relax and get your anxiety in check before you do decide to bring a little one into this world. With the stress you have about possibly being pregnant you couldn't handle the stress that a little baby brings.
You aren't going to get help by reposting the same question with a new title. You're giving the impression that you are not a legitimate questioner.
No one here can help you with a medical problem when you won't take a pregnancy test. That's not what this site is for. Please don't follow the advice to go to an ER - that's ridiculous and ERs don't need to be cluttered up with people who panic when they get a period or don't get a period but then talks about "losing my baby." Call your physician for a pregnancy test and a referral to a therapist for help with the anxiety. And double check with the hospital you stayed in to see if they had your records including your birthday control medications. You have no idea what you were given - no one takes their own meds into the hospital because it's not allowed. So start with your doctor who provided your birth control prescription and stop reposting questions that just waste your time and increase your anxiety.
Why would you lose your baby? People have had healthy amazing babies fishing, harvesting and raking up vegetables ever since life began. Perhaps you should go to the doctor,find out if you are indeed pregnant and get to work on living your life.
You posted this twice.
Gabesgirl.
You are NOT ready to have a baby. I'm sorry. If you are ALREADY panicking about losing your baby and you don't even know if you are??!?! You aren't ready for a pregnancy.
Get your life in order. Go seek counseling so that you can learn to breathe and control your emotions and NOT panic....being a parent is HARD work. Babies cry and can't tell you what their problem is - if you are panicking over **THIS**??? You will be in a tizzy every day as a mother. I'm sorry if that sounds harsh - but really. Get a grip.
FIND OUT IF YOU ARE PREGNANT FIRST!!!! Take a test. It's possible that your body is reacting to being off the pill for TWO DAYS...it happens!! Oh my God. I'm sorry. How old are you?? 17???
Just go have a pregnancy test! It's the unknown that's upsetting you so much.
help you how, precisely?
khairete
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If you don't know if you are pregnant, how do you know you are losing your baby?
Go pee on a stick.