E.D.
Hi A.- have you heard of healthy sleep habits,healthy child, by dr. weisbluth? it's a great book and provided much needed help for my husband and i when our son was a nb and even now, 24mos. there's an awful lot of research towards the beginning of the book, but dr. w does breakdown chapters by age, so we found that to be very helpful. hang in there and don't worry too much about your neighbors. we are also in a condo, so i completely emphathize, but sometimes you've got to do what you've got to do. take care- E.