My son turned 2 February 4th. He was talking very well, developing on schedule, etc. Since yesterday morning when he woke up he wont talk. He has a large vocabulary, but apparently will not use any of it. He has made up signs for most things- not real sign language but just his own signs? He won't rally look at anyone, and he will answer you if it is a yes or no question with shaking his head or nodding. (which he has never done before, he has previously been a big fan of yes and no). He also wont let me pick him up- he kicks and screams.... he still lets me lay him down at night. He also is still "talking" this wierd babble kind of stuff.... like baby talk but bizarre because he never really did baby talk. He will occassionally still talk in words, short ones but only by and to himself- not to anyone. Is this normal? I am wondering about autism? Anyone had this experience?
Thanks everyone so muchfor all the suggestions. yesterday morning he woke up talking up a storm, and then abruptly quit again. Then he started getting spoons and hitting the table with them hard and fast, and sitting in a corner and glaring at everyone..... I was really scared so I actually did take him in. He had RSV about a week ago for the 2 weeks previous to that, and what I found out was that he still has bronchitis bordering on pneumonia, he has an ear infection, and laringitis. The doctor said that the same muscles for the ears work the throat so with that and the laringitis it is probably very painful for him to speak. This was a shocker to me, because this odd behavior was the only thing going on, he was still playing and wanting to go outside and just really not acting sick. The doc said it doesn't look like anything neurological and is going to reevaluate on Monday after all the meds kick in- I will let everyone know if it turns out to be anything more than all this. Again, thanks so much, I really appreciate it a lot!
Hi T., I would let his pediatrician know right away. Has he had immunizations recently? This doesn't sound normal. I hope this is just temporary.
Good luck,
S.
Hello! Since this just started it is probably too early to know what is going on. I would make an appointment with my doctor for sure just to get him checked out. It is not likely it would be Autism because it is usually diagnosed earlier and you would have seen other things before now. However there are different Pervasive Development Disorders (which is the same category as Autism is in) that appear after several years of normal development. One is Childhood Disintegrative Disorder. I am a student that is studying Special Education so all of my knowledge comes from my classes. I would really recommend seeing a doctor because they would have a better idea of what is going on. I wish you luck and will keep your family in my prayers.
G.
I have a 2yo as well and I would visit the following website: http://www.thelilyfoundation.org/
This sounds extreme, but it is best to rule out the worst case as soon as possible and/or seek treatment.
I would personally make an appt. with my pediatrician or talk to someone at the hospital.
I ran the situation by my sister who has worked with Lily (from the site)in a care giving role and has talked to her family. This may just be a minor growth thing so don't be too alarmed, but I think it is best to be safe.
Good luck and you are your family are in my prayers.
I would be wondering about autism also. As a teacher we have seen many instances of children being "normal" and then have the same issues. It may be linked to immunizations - you might want to speak with your family physician about it. I am no expert and I have no studies to back me up, just a gut feeling. I hope that it is something else. I hope that this info or opinion helps but does not freak you out.
Hi T.,
I would make an appointment with your pediatrian right away. Did anything happen during the night? Have you started a new routine or been around anyone new that he may not be comfortable? Has he been sick or running a fever?
Kids can scare you to death... I know that my little girl has given me a whirl from time to time.
And please don't get scare or worried yourself. Because if for some reason he is doing this because he is scared or uncomfortable, he will be more so if he sees that you are.
I would continue to do whatever you can to show him that you are going to care for him and love him and regardless of his fighting you that you are still right there.
You know your child best, if you feel that he needs to see a doctor, then trust yourself.
I'll say a prayer for you.
TRUDI
What vaccinations has he had? Start researching reactions to these vaccinations. The best advice I have is to educate yourself here is some websites to get you started....www.thinktwice.com www.909shot.com www.drcarley.com www.vaclib.org www.vaers.hhs.gov www.vaccinationnews.com www.nvic.org
Tiffnay,
Lack of eye contact is always a big indicator for autism. The be-all-and-end-all is that you are only going to really know by taking your child to a health care professional. I am sure you don't have anything to worry about, so get him checked out and put your mind at rest.
Good luck, Sam
If he has had immunizations lately it could be a reaction. If that's the case I'd get him checked out immediately!
T.,
Definately go visit your petiatrician. I also want to invite you to visit my blog: http://healthyhouse4u.blogspot.com/
Click on the February archieves and there a article on:
"Our Son's Story" 2 links are in there that you might find helpful.
Do take this serious if his withdraw from speaking is related to Autism don't panic- early detection is key to helping him overcome this delay. Please read "Our Son's Story" in my blog. I started that blog to help others. If I can help you in any way please let me know. Blessings, C.
I just want to ditto all the mom's who suggested going to see a pediatrician for assistance.
Has he had immunizations recently? Has he seen anything that might be traumatic?
I have two children with Autism. It is a possiblitie but I wouldn't freek out over two days of not talking. I would reccomend you scheduling an appointment with your doctor to go over your concerns. Maybe he just doesn't feel good. The fact that he answers a question at all is good. When my youngest started to regress she went in the corner and didn't even realize the rest of the world existed.
My goodness T., I would call his Doctor............I have 2 children and have never had an expeirence like that. I would be interested to know what it is if you can find out. He sounds healthy and I am sure he is fine, it just seems a little strange and extreme. Maybe the Doc has some thoughts.
Best of luck to you,
~L.
I would give it a few days and then call his pediatrician and ask for help.
